Decide which kind of influence is good for you
What we see or hear influence us. The things around us make an impact on our mind and we are certain to make use of it some time in life. Some turn out to be good and others reflect in a bad way on ur character. The company changes at various stages in life and so does the influence of people on us. It is difficult to decide which company is good for us and how some company of people are negatively affecting us.
The first influencers in life
The family is the first school of thought and the members instil the first set of customs and values. It is like planting a seed and slowly watering it to become a beautiful flower. The family values remain in us for the whole life. We are influenced maximum by the people we live with. So you can’t blame the person alone for bad behaviour or credit for the good deeds. It is the family who nurture values in the person.
Second, comes school or the education system where you spend 6-7 hours every day. We make friends and this phase of life is usually the best in the entire life. We spend 12 years with school mates and are highly influenced by them. Remember your parents telling you to leave a company of children who are not good for you? The bunch of children who don’t studies will not let you study so leave their company.
The whole life revolves around influence
It is difficult to decide which set of influence is good for you. But many times, we are warned by destiny. We get intimations through this universe. Like our parents, teachers know what’s best for us.
My maternal grandmother used to say that I will have a career in writing. At that time no one understood what can be a career like this? Journalism was not that famous with girls. And today after much time, things became clearer and my blogging journey got its due share of shine.
My Maths tutor knew what am I good at. He believed in me and that gave me confidence. When we are doubtful, we start by our mentor’s wish and then gradually realize our true calling.
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