Can there be a new perspective to see the people who envy you?
Envy is one feeling that’s given the green colour and much to my disliking, I accept this negative feeling as my favourite colour. Though, many of us know that Shakesphere once compared envy with a green-eyed monster and hence gave this colour but long before that Greeks thought that an ill person produces too much bile that gives his body the green tint. So now the next important discussion is about searching for a new perspective to see the people who envy you?
Envy is a feeling that origins in your body itself. In maximum cases, you don’t prepare it but certain people or circumstances make you envious. So the important discussion is how to deal with people who envy you? Can there be a new and fresh perspective to see them?
New perspective to see envious people
- The best way is to ignore these people and I also know that it’s hard to do so. Often these people are close to you who converse with you daily. Still, many times a smile comes as a rescue and the other times being silent makes you win.
- Befriend them and see if you can know the reason behind their behaviour. It is easy to know the people who envy you by their looks or conversations. But if talking to them openly helps then you should definitely try this out.
- Keep yourself busy with what you like the most. Blogging keeps me sane and distracted from unnecessary gossips and people. But I understand that many times, your favourite passion also betrays you. At this time only, I realized that there’s always a second hobby also. These days it’s watching a thriller on the internet for me. Suspense exercises my brain and it’s off from other usual things for a while.
- Don’t you think scrolling your friends on social media unnecessary makes you envious of them? We all know that social media life is fake and you never know the reality but still we browse and invite trouble. It’s best to control your emotions and make them work for the right things.
Do you have any better solution to tackle envious people around you?
This post is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge 2021
Positive take & solutions, Geethica.
Envy is a monster. Better to compete with own self 🙂
So true. Thanks, Anita