Are you gifting him happy and strong emotions this Valentine?
Some special gestures of your partner keep reminding you of the bond no matter how long have you been in the relationship. This year, we will be completing 14 years of togetherness and this gives the perfect reason to gift him happy and strong emotions this Valentine’s. Times change and so our emotions for each other but what remains constant is the company. Maturity has taught us to be quiet on issues we don’t agree or speak our point in the shortest possible way without dragging it. In every way, there is a bond that brings us closer once again and we move ahead; Happy and strong. Are you gifting him emotions that are unadulterated but pure?
The honeymoon ends leaving behind emotions
The honeymoon period doesn’t come back but we can certainly create much better memories now. With much more clarity on your partner’s moods and tastes, you win him naturally. You behave according to his comfort while he adjusts a little and a common understanding is created between both you. You are your natural self. At times, you may be feeling neglected for your own interests and giving him more importance. Don’t feel low instead gift him the emotion of perseverance. What goes out always come back.
Learning from kids
Kids make us patient and more responsible. Now we care and share responsibilities and enjoy parenthood together. We learn to forgive and move. Now, there’s not much time to crib over issues as that time is spent with kids. You study more on budgeting and saving hard-earned money. Small enjoyments are admired not ignored. The ways of spending may be different but the intention is similar. You may feel to interrupt his thoughts, do it, it’s important to keep your viewpoint. But at the same time gift him the emotion of support. Show him that you care for his opinion too. Be quiet when things are not turning your way. Time will make it for you.
Emotions change with time
Emotions change with your designations at home. Your reactions towards the same people differ and that disturbs your mental health. Even your partner is quiet and has a difference of opinion. But you can control your own thoughts only. So don’t waste your energy and sentiments for others. One thing that bothers is that your partner and you think differently now. At this point in time, gift him the emotion of acceptance. It is hard to accept individuals as they are but far peace-giving.
Life is not all adjusting but modifying yourself according to time and situation. You don’t bow down if you change for others but earn respect in the long run. When you feel low, just browse your old albums. Pictures are the best way to de-stress and relive those lovely moments spent together. Feel young, happy and gift him the emotion of love forever.
So what’s your emotion this Valentine?