Destiny gives you friends at the right time
Sometimes you meet people who are so alike and you keep on talking to them for long. You even travel back in time with them and catch up so many moments that you both have lived the same way. That’s destiny giving you friends at the right time when you have lived a certain part of your life to relish later. Today, I also spent an ample amount of time with a friend of mine who’s recently become much closer. We meet daily at the bus stop while boarding our kids and have small chit chats for about 10 mins or so. We make plans to meet at home where we can let our kids play and we talk. Today, it was that day.
By now, I had an idea of her lifestyle and she may also have an idea about how I live? The pleasant surprise was when I entered her home, it was warm and inviting. There was more white space to let in the creativity and less of distractions in the form of furniture. This place had the minimum things required for a comfortable living. It gave the perfect example of a nuclear educative family that loved to spend on books, artefacts and time with loved ones. There was a sort of belongingness that kept me glued.
Places do have positive vibes
We talked, we laughed and we shared so many common instances that we perceived at different times in our lives. And then we came to know we are of the same age too. Life is perfect at many times, it is just that sometimes we catch it correctly and enjoy while the other times we are busy to see its importance. So it was a perfect evening to discuss our parents, kids, husbands and so much more.
Her house reminded me of my college friend whose place also gave me the same vibes. I often went to her house during my college days just to see does anything changes the next time I visit? But nothing changed, in fact, it attracted me more. Today also, it was the perfect time to remember for long and make more memories together. Your lifestyle reveals much more about your character than your words do.
Actually, it is the lifestyle that I have admired and know that it’s not mine. Maybe, because I have always been in a family. Often I talked to my mom about this and she also had the same admiration. That’s genes, I guess! Certain people have a certain aura that keeps you attracted to them. This is for our newfound friendship that is not based on rules but on the admiration of each other’s thoughts.