Close to my heart – My Belief
Every relationship has certain limits and discipline to follow. The beauty of all is to abide by the rules and at the same time believe in what is close to your heart. The world is ready to guide you on every other thing. We listen too but like to do what we believe in. As a parent, a mother, I am in this dilemma so many times. Whenever an issue comes up regarding the child, the whole world is up on their toes and everyone feels they are right except the mother. I am sure all the mothers would be nodding to this. And the solution? We do what we believe in; what’s close to our heart. And mind you, this is at our own risk. We may fail many times but are ready to take the charge.
Situations that make the mother stand alone
Every situation becomes an issue and every issue results in arguments. The solution is only with us. Just listen and keep listening. Put your full concentration on listening only so that later you can decide from the discussion.
- When kids are not well – This is the phase when each and every person in the family think for the good. But since all think differently, it ends up in another argument and ego clashes. In my initial years of motherhood, I also used to react instantly and get into unnecessary talks. And many times, I was the wrong person regarding medicines and doctors. Then I realised that in all the chaos who is suffering? My child. So it is better to watch and work in the welfare of your child.
- Kid’s school – Regular copies and Diary are checked by the mother daily. All the important notes and things to bring the next day is a mother’s job. But the moment you missed checking it a day, The whole world judges you. This includes your child’s teacher also. I ask everybody. What happened if I missed? Why can’t I miss? So many times I prepare the child for school activity and it does not happen that day. Did I ask the ma’am?
The issues are many but words are less to explain this motherhood journey. What I have learnt until now is see your child’s good and do what gives you peace. At many phases, we get confused as how to behave? As a mother or as wife, daughter in law? Look at the situation and see what’s your role there? If your child is sick, do what a mother will do in that particular situation. Whether it is to let down your ego in front of your spouse or family.
In all the cases, you need to keep yourself calm then only you can think wisely. It is
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I could so relate to this post, Geethica. Motherhood is over whelming. And sometimes solo parenting makes it even bad. But if we have a way to take care of yourselves and have our pririties in place, things can be better.
It was very refreshing to read your candid thoughts on motherhood. We are all in the same boat! #momology
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