Both the parts complete a pair

A pair of shoes is important to make them wearable. When one of the parts is lost, the other part becomes useless. And the whole pair of shoes is a waste. Each of them complements and completes the other. Similarly is the relationship between parents is. Both mother and father complete the circle of parenting. They complement each other and love the baby together. They love equally but it depends on the onlookers how they see it.

No parent loves more or less

More than parents to the child, partners are a support system to each other. Like any other relationship, parenting is also sometimes fulfilling and at the same time exhausting. But when you talk to your partner, you are refreshed.

There are silent duties of my partner that I admire. He may not be as active as me but he is there when I need him the most.

I wait for the evenings when he will be back from work and the kids will go to him. On his part, he feels relaxed to see kids playing and narrating their stories to him. The hardships of life fade temporarily when we laugh with our children.

One is incomplete without the other

We as parents may have quarrelled millions of times. The reason is the habits of a child. What we don’t like in our partner, we don’t want our child to adopt that habit. But the child will take habits that suit him because he/she is also an individual. The child has different tastes and preferences. We have to give that liberty unless it does not harm anybody.

At the end of the day, when you make up with your partner for the lost time, you feel so light. It is important to accept that maturity comes when we overlook silly things and move on together.