Marry someone you admire
Over a decade now, I know you inside out. I can feel the transparency in your nature. Though I have grown up watching you in different situations, there are still many milestones to cover. At this stage, I have found many similar qualities in you like that in my father. In fact, those ones also which I wanted in my father. Like it is said that a daughter looks for all the qualities of her father in her spouse. And I don’t need the world to tell me that I am lucky to have in my life. I can feel that and thank my God. You would never believe me if I tell you that I admire you so much but it’s true and I can prove it.
The reasons I admire you
There are more disagreements than agreements between us. And every time, I think of avoiding such situations that lead to similar outbreak but somehow they happen. I admire that you prefer silence than involving in arguments.
I admire you for taking pains to make our relationship smooth and share equal responsibilities wherever possible.
A man also changes. You have also changed a lot from being a bachelor to a husband and now a father. I admire you for the power of acceptance in you.
Many times I am tired of my duties and responsibilities and want to shut the doors to the world. But then I see you taking up much bigger responsibilities of us. And I calm down to accept the reality. I truly admire you to be so brave.
You respect my creativity and hard work towards achieving more. I have seen you adjusting wherever possible and give me the strength to dream big. You deserve to be admired.
I started to like many of the films you watch and the books you read. How did that happen? I am clueless!
Marry who understands you
There are plenty of life lessons to learn together. We both make mistakes and learn from them. We mature with each passing day. Being with you I have learnt the art of patience. And I truly admire you for that.
Loved the way you cascaded such an important piece of advice in a concise manner. Right on point and engaging. Mutual admiration is indeed the glue to a happy and lasting partnership.
Yes, Vibhu. I feel mutual admiration and letting go of ego will help maintain a good relationship. Thanks.
Beutiful post 🙂
Thanks a lot
Such heartfelt post straight from your heart! Sometimes we don’t express our feelings for our partners, this is a great example.
Thanks Surabhi.
I like this post of yours. Without love and respect there is no relationship
Thank you Arv.
That’s so beautiful 🙂 He must be elated to read this.
Yes, he felt good. Thanks, Rashi.
Beautiful piece. Very true.
Thanks Kalpana.
Such a sweet way to count your blessings and be thankful Geethica. Wishing you many more years of marital bliss ahead 🙂
Thanks a lot. That’s so sweet of you. Wish you the same.
Loved this article!! amazing
Thank you, Vidhya.
Aww.. This is such a lovely heartwarming post, Geethica. Supercute tribute.
Thank you Shalzz
Your husband is lucky to have a wife who values and respects him so much. Its true, we sometimes get so worked up with our problems that what our spouses do for us gets ignored.
Seriously Varsh. Thanks
aww.. written so beautifully. and its true, a relationship with admiration n love automatically gets love
That’s so true. Thank you dear
It shows your love and respect for him! He is a person with good qualities and he is caring too. Ask him to read 🙂
Thank you Sayeri. Yes he read it and smiled back at me.
Has your husband read this post? This is such a lovely ode to him. ☺️
He is not verbal about his emotions. Even he has read it he will not mention it to me. I have to understand myself only through his behavior. Thank you Shilpa.
This is wonderful.. its hard to find a partner with so many good qualities
So true. Thanks Akshata.