Who’s closer to my heart – Husband or smartphone
Today, as a blogger, my work comes from my smartphone. Any new work knocks me through WhatsApp or an email. The synchronisation works the best and I am highly impressed by this technology. Apart from writing a post, all my work is on my smartphone. But does that mean that smartphone has replaced my husband in my life? Is a smartphone much closer to my heart than my partner? Not at all! Both have different priorities in my life. And a dream is never fulfilled by a gadget unless the happiness is shared with my partner.
How do I manage both
Less Talkative
By nature, we both are less talkative. Neither of us complains to each other. We save energy and put it into our work. So there is no question of giving less time to each other. Physical presence is what matters the most to us.
He loves to read on his smartphone
This quality of his work is in my favour and allows me to use the best available resources over the phone.
He respects my work
When your man respects your talent, you get immense confidence. You work with double power and enthusiasm. There is no question of ignorance in between.
Space to each other
We both understand the commitment towards work and give space to each other. This mutual understanding makes our relationship wonderful.
Time spent together
Every couple has a timeout for themselves. We have coffee breaks and night walks to nearby markets where we are out of the gadget zone and into human mode. Talking about everything and anything before retiring from the day adds to a special bond. But that too when kids allow us, else they have their own endless stories to narrate the whole night.
How do you manage human relations and gadgets in your life? Share with the world and let them know what works best for you.
Love the way you guys have balanced this out in your life- that is the trick and you seem to have perfected it Geethica!!
Thank you dear🙈. In marriage we just need to keep trying what works the best.
Interesting post! A nice topic 👍
Thank you Rashmi
That is perfect understanding between you both where you are aware of the nature of each work. Mutual respect is very important . Great write up
Thanks Sharvari.
My hubby is my favourite .No comparison with phone.But twitter is a good friend
Haha….I know Twitter is simply the best. Thank you dear.
I do live without the husband for most part of the day – not sure if i can do the same without the smartphone!!! LOL
Hehe Tina that’s a valid point. We do spend many hours a day without hubby but without phone…….?
It is so good to read that you guys understand each other.It is important to give space and respect each other’s work.
That’s true. Thank you dear
Rightly said Geethica. It’s so important to respect eachother’s Time and space .
I think you have it all figured out and I would definitely need to learn from you! I happen to be too chatty so it upsets when I’m the only one talking 😉
Yes just that you need to adjust yourself accordingly to maintain peace in life. Thanks