Who’s closer to my heart – Husband or smartphone
Today, being a blogger my work comes from my smartphone. Any new work knocks me through WhatsApp or an email. The synchronisation works the best and I am highly impressed by this technology. Apart from writing a post, all my work is on my smartphone. But does that mean that smartphone has replaced my husband in my life? Is smartphone much closer to my heart than my partner? Not at all! Both have different priorities in my life. And a dream is never fulfilled by a gadget unless the happiness is shared with my partner.
How do I manage both
Less Talkative– By nature, we both are less talkative. Neither of us complains to each other. We save energy and put it into our work. So there is no question of giving less time to each other. Physical presence is what matters the most to us.
He loves to read on his smartphone– This quality of his works in my favour and gives me an opportunity to make use of the best available resources through the phone.
He respects my work- When your man respects your talent, you get immense confidence. You work with double power and enthusiasm. There is no question of ignorance in between.
Space to each other– We both understand the commitment towards work and give space to each other. This mutual understanding makes our relationship wonderful.
Time spent together– Every couple has a timeout for themselves. We have coffee breaks and night walks to nearby markets where we are out of gadget zone and into the human mode. We talk about everything and anything. We also have bedtime talks before retiring from the day. But that too when kids allow us, else they have their own endless stories to narrate the whole night.
How do you manage human relations and gadgets in your life? Do share with the world and let them know what works the best for you.
Linking this post with Zainab for #WhatILove series