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title: "When parents fight in front of kids"
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date: 2018-01-16
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# When parents fight in front of kids

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](https://www.indiblogger.in/post/when-parents-fight-in-front-of-kids)Children look up to their parents as role models. **You like it or not, every habit of yours can be seen in your child**. Be it good or bad. Children are also affected by the environment at home. **What they feel at home makes a mark in their brain**. It is essential to give a calm and loving environment to your kids. When parents fight over some issues in front of their kids, children are adversely affected in the following ways:

## When you actually fight

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- **Children tend to disrespect either both parents or any one of them. **When one of the parents uses foul language for another partner in front of their kids, the children feel that they also have to disrespect that parent.
- They adapt to this unfortunate environment, **they also start talking in the same language.** And behave in the same manner with siblings or their friends outside.
- **They are mentally affected**. They feel that there is always shouting at home. **They seek peace outside the home**. They want to be away from home as much as possible.
- **They feel this is the definition of love.** The bitterness is instilled in them since childhood. When some stranger talks to them politely they feel attracted to them.
- They feel there is no bonding among the family members. Everyone seems to be stranger for kids. **This leads to depressed lifestyles. They lack confidence in their character.**

## We should find ways to avoid fighting in front of kids. Some of the ways can be:

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- **Don't react immediately**. I know it is not easy but we are parents and we have to learn to be patient.
- **Many times we say wrong things and react without understanding the whole situation.** Stop right there, think about it and talk after some time to resolve the issue.
- **Keep the argument one to one only**. When we drag families or friends, it comes to ego. And then **there's no control on what we speak.**
- Control yourself and leave the area. You can always argue in another room where kids are not present.
- **Disagreements are always there between two people and it is natural.** We should always accept the fact that another person may have a different point of view on the same issue.
- Keep your tone low. **High volumes always lead to ugly results.**

Every couple has a different way to tackle this issue and I am sure every parent is correct in their own form.

 

Linking this post with [Amrita](http://www,kreativemommy.com) and [Deepa](http://www.healthwealthbridge.com) for Monday Mommy Moments

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