Old Memories – Fresh Pen | Series 3
Every person has his own aura to spread. Today, in my memories I remember an old uncle who loved me like an angel. My Fresh Pen acknowledges him as “Pinky Mama”.
He lived in our neighbourhood and used to visit us every other day. He was only some years younger than my grandmother. But his enthusiasm towards me made him my buddy. Every time he visited, he used to get some toffees to shower his love on me. Or sometimes a doll was brought to accompany me. Theirs was a close-knit family with 2 boys who were quite big in age as compared to me. But the love among all of them was the same for me.
From the core
I was the only child at that time and Pinky Mama used to take me along to his house. They had a big veranda and I enjoyed running there for hours. I wonder who used to run with me? The boys or Pinky Mama? This part of the memory has totally fused.
The only running episode I remember is when I was playing one day until dark and fell down. My forehead had swollen from one side. All of them were around me pressing my head with warm water. And Pinky Mama caressed my forehead with soothing words while wiping my tears. His nasal tone is still echoing in my ears.
Lessons learned later in life
Later in age, I realised that Pinky Mama was not our relative. But a friend of our distant relative lived nearby.
- Kindness shall not flow into you only through your blood relatives.
- In every era, there are one in a hundred persons who love you unconditionally.
- Spread the love without any particular reason but one- That it makes you happy and content.
- Through your loving and kind nature, you leave a mark in everyone’s heart and are remembered even after decades.
Memories are old but the pen is fresh
Some relations are not bound by blood. They may be deeper and far more loving than blood relations. Loved your post.
Thank you Vidhi
True Geethica, that kindness may not be only shown to only blood relatives
Cheers
MeenalSonal from AuraOfThoughts
Thanks a lot.
Kindness is probably the understated emotion which needs to be brought out through such stories. A nice post, Geethica.
Thanks Rohan.
The older moholla systems where everyone knew everyone was such a blessing in disguise. We had so many foster relatives and friends and the only thing ever exchanged was love. you made me nostalgic
Aww…. seriously Neha. I too miss those times. Thanks dear
Very well said. As they say, kindness goes a long way. Happy to read about this kind soul. Wonderful lessons.
Thanks Payal
True, family isnt always blood. It’s the people who brighten your life with their presence and who would do anything to see you smile, and who love you no matter what.
Thanks Shilpa
You just reminded me of my childhood neighbor at my maternal grandmother’s place. I still remember playing there for hours together and once when I got my nail punctured they had tears in their eyes and prayed for me to get better. It is such a memorable time. Thanks Geethica for such a wonderful post.
Aww….. through blogging we connect to so many like minded people. Thanks Jayanthy
Love, sharing and caring need not be limited to the relationships sealed by birth. It is a feeling of abundance; it must flow freely only to realise that it returns back in multifolds!
– Anagha From Team MocktailMommies
That’s perfectly true Anagha. Only if everyone understands it. Thanks
Something that really does apply in my life… my ‘family’ is all about people unrelated by blood in the end 🙂
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Yes I can understand. A doctor is connected to everybody and still not regulated through blood. Thanks Roshan.
More often than not it is the ones not related by blood that shower unconditional love on us. Pinky Mama is a kind soul.
Thank you Varsh. That’s so sweet of you. 😊
Well written…
Thanks Amit
Another beautiful post, Geethica. It is so true that kindness can be taught by anyone who is kind towards you. Loved reading about Pinky Mama.
Thanks dear 😊
How very well said Geethica, kindness and warmth can come from anyone with a golden heart. Only if mankind understands this. I wish.
That’s true. Like we all share a different relationship through our blogging regardless of being from different lands. Thanks dear
So true, and the kind of rapport we have with each other in these months due to our work and like-mindedness. Love and more power to you dear 🙂
Love you for the same 😀
Interesting observation on how love is shared by people who are not always related by blood.
Thanks a lot.