Motherhood being the hardest
When you try every possible way to maintain a balance between the two kids
When you get equal gifts and divide yourself equally among them
They still quarrel and blame you for being partial
That is the hardest part of motherhood!
When you love them unconditionally, praise them for their hard work
And the minute you deny a favour for their wrong behaviour.
They stop talking to you and they ignore you
That is the hardest part of motherhood!
When you give them respect as equal to elders and try to comfort them in every situation.
But the moment you don’t fulfil their demands
They behave as strangers and talk the way that hurts in the heart
That is the hardest part of motherhood!
When you teach them good values and principles of life
When you teach them to respect elders and save money
Still, they answer rudely at times and don’t understand the value of hard earned money.
That is the hardest part of motherhood!
When your qualities and weaknesses show in your child, some good and others bad
When you realise how bad habits hurt and must have hurt your parents.
But you can’t go back and alter
That is the most painful part of motherhood!!
Linking this post with Amrita and Deepa for #MMM
Lovely post….and heartfelt too. Yes, looking at our weaknesses through them is toughest.
That’s true Upasna. There are many such habits that I want to change in them. Thanks
Children are after all children and behave as they feel from inside, they reflect everything that goes on inside them and outside too. True at times they become strangers – but isnt that what they are – separate individuals and not an extension of us.
That’s so correct. But when we are proud of our qualities in them at the same time we are guilty at times to see our bad habits reflecting in them 😊. Thanks for commenting Menaka
Wow you have out down exactly like how I feel… Motherhood is really tough and sometimes painful too after all the effort you out in
Allthatsmom
When your qualities and weaknesses show in your child, some good and other bad… This happens to me a lot. U appreciate my mom more now because Unrealized how difficult it must have been for her. Thank you for sharing this in #MondayMommyMoments
Thank you Amrita
Such a heartfelt post ❤ during my childhood , I sometimes felt too that mom was partial and loved other siblings more but now that I am a mom I know the truth…..moms are best❤❤❤
That’s true. It’s hard to be a mom😊
Bittersweet truth of parenting! Motherhood is everything about going through the hard times and finiding hapiness in teeny weeny things.
Seriously. Every phase teaches us a lesson. Thanks dear
Hha..how true is this! You have mentioned some points which all moms can relate to and all these hardships of motherhood. Thanks for linking up with #MMM Geethica.
Thank you
beautiful lines lovely post, for me the toughest or hardest part is – balancing on being a mother & myself. Both roles coincide at most the times leaving me either out of patience or energy. Motherhood is hard.
Yeah that’s another aspect of motherhood. When I am able to write I feel like a woman again and not just a mother
Interesting read… For me too the hardest thing is when i see my not very pleasing reflection in my child… It’s difficult when they copy something wrong from u
That’s correct. They are constant reminders for us for improvement. Thanks Preet
So agree with all the points. The last one especially. Kids are our mirrors and when we see the bad side of ours being reflected, it is the hardest to confront.
Yes and I guess only mothers have that guilt. Thanks .
when they stop talking to you, that is the difficult part of motherhood. Loved our write up, and especially these lines.
Thanks😀
Well yes you nailed it here!!I love your writing by the way
Thank you dear.
Loved the poetic flow of thoughts. Every word truly expressed your emotions and the rhythm took them to my heart. Loved reading it.
Thank you Vidhi😊
‘You can’t go back and alter.’ Such profound words. I really need to remember this like a mantra and live each day to the fullest with my kids.
That’s a very wise thought to carry on. I am glad you like my post😊
They stop talking with you and ignore you is really the hardest part of motherhood.
Very well expressed post dear
Thank you Vaidehi😊
There are so many hardships. I guess we can overcome all because we are moms 🙂
Yes that’s true. 😀
Motherhood is a journey and each step is not so easy as it looks. Moms face lot of troubles in day to day life to raise these tiny humans. Loved reading the post thanks for sharing.
Thank you dear😀