Fading guilt

Geethica

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59 Responses

  1. Snigdha says:

    Wonderful post.. Patience is the key of motherhood. .#jamss2018 #OpenNTalk

  2. Insights that I was not really aware of. Though I’m sure the list can be much more detailed…

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  3. Priyanka says:

    Your post was heartfelt, and anything heartfelt is beautiful! 🙂

    #OpenNTalk #CrossBorderSisters

  4. thefashionandcity says:

    I know It must be very difficult for you people!! Being a mom is not easy!! Hats off to you guys.. Love from #BloggerBabes #OpenNTalk

  5. An@m! says:

    That is so true. Can relate to every word you said.

    – Anami from #InvincibleGang for #OpenNTalk #Week3

  6. sayeridiary says:

    same story for me also…#BloggerBabes #OpeNTalk

  7. The story of yours is similar to mine…married early and we grew together…now also growing together. I enjoyed each moment of my motherhood and still cherish the days spent together. Lovely post Geethica.

    #BlogAMile #OpenNTalk

  8. sayeridiary says:

    These were my questions too!! I didnt sleep for the first 3 months of my motherhood journey. When I became a mother my friends were enjoying their bachelor life. Still if you sit and think about your journey as a mother, you will feel blessed, it is an amazing journey. Some of my friends, dont want to take a baby because they dont want to take responsibility. I feel pity for them because they dont know ever the heavenly feeling of motherhood.

  9. Shilpa Garg says:

    I can relate to this. As young mothers we all must have experienced these feelings and felt irritated at that time and guilty later. But guess, that’s normal and part of the parenting process 🙂

  10. heart touching beautiful lines by mother

  11. Varsha Gode says:

    Such a beautiful post. I see the happiness on your face when you are with your daughter in every picture you post. P.S. Never stop writing, it’s the best part of working from home. I’ve been through somewhat similar, “got married and shifted from a city to not so big city with no friends or relatives around”. I kept asking myself what went wrong that I left a job as a Process Trainer for a leading US Website. But than it gradually made me more independent to learn new things, stay alone, start my own blog and many more things. Hats off to womanhood and to our father who raise us and teach us every value in life 🙂
    #OpenNTalk #InvincibleGang

  12. Varsh says:

    All moms go through these phased of change. Sometimes they aren’t easy to accept. We do learn a lot on the way though and the journey is worth every effort. #OpenNTalk #BloggerBabes

  13. Post partum depression is something you might want to read about. Closely associated with motherhood

  14. I agree!! Comparing makes things even more worse

  15. Totally agree with your point that every child is different and unique and children should not be compared with each other

    http://www.simpleindianmom.in/5-things-need-develop-childs-public-speaking-skill/

  16. Anchal says:

    Such a heart felt post.Learning to be more patient everyday.

  17. Be pateient is the one I love to redo in my parenting journey. Great pointers in your post.

  18. i so resonate with this – feeling guilt at every step is something i would want to change about my style too!

  19. MerogAndMom says:

    Love reading your posts dear! Every child is different and parents need different set of skills and emotions to deal with their kids

  20. vidhiduggal says:

    You are absolutely right. Motherhood is indeed very challenging. You do your best still get the feeling that you are going wrong somewhere. But it’s very important that you let the guilts fade away. Could relate to every word of yours.

  21. deepagandhi says:

    I loved this post Geethica as I can relate to so many things in your post. I also got married early and had kids early. It was like reading my own story. But realised later that everything happens for good. Thanks for linking up with #MMM 🙂

  22. Loved it Geethica, Patience YES YES & a BIG YES. I agree and my best favourite is DON’T Compare yourself with other moms. How well you have articulated the entire journey of motherhood in these few points. More power to you babe.

  23. Hi5 Momma!!! Even I want to be more calm n patient

  24. Aesha says:

    Avoid comparising oneself is very important. Every mom has her own parenting style. One needs to understand

  25. The first kids are special…they suffer our parenting blunders and savour our parenting successes. LOvely post.

  26. Jiya B says:

    I loved reading and lots of love to J. every child is unique and so is Every Parent. After doing everything still something is left and I think its fine. Loved reading your post.

  27. Megha Gupta says:

    This post is so real and you have written from heart. I don’t know you as a person but after reading this i felt that i know you. Keep writing more posts like these dear

  28. z says:

    I guess we all want to be more patient! But as moms it gets a little hard to always wear the patience cap!

  29. momtasticworld says:

    Such relatable post. I agree accepting the fact that kids love to cling to their mums does brings a little peace to us. Thank you for sharing this .

  30. A very beautiful name to your post .All moms suffer guilt .Whatever they do it always seems to be too less .Fading of guilt is an apt description. Great post.Thank you for writing with us for #MondayMommyMoments

    • Geethica says:

      Thank you very much Amrita. This post took more than the usual time to complete. Maybe because I had to go 9 years back in my life and feel those emotional moments all over again.

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