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title: "5 Quirky ways you can make him listen to you"
url: https://thoughtsbygeethica.com/2017/05/make-him-listen/
date: 2017-05-06
modified: 2024-08-09
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author: "Geethica"
description: "Men are indeed from Mars and women are from Venus. The genes are so different that you will spend a lifetime understanding each other but will get nothing. The most..."
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  - "Husbands"
  - "Make him listen"
  - "relationship"
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# 5 Quirky ways you can make him listen to you

Men are indeed from Mars and women are from Venus. The genes are so different that you will spend a lifetime understanding each other but will get nothing. The most common problem between the two arises when a woman is curious to search for ways to make him listen.

"Can you please pick up that book?"

"hmmm"

"Aree I am waiting. Have you heard what I said?"

"uhh....what?"

"If you leave that mobile, you will listen what am I saying?"

Doesn't this conversation sound like your own with your hubby?

## What's the problem?

Well, the post this week is a quirky one. It took me hours to go back to my memories and think about it.  Is there any time in a day when your husbands listen to you?

I guess they have 4 eyes but no ears. You try telling them many things, but they will listen to only the ones they are interested in. Or for that matter, they don't listen to anything. Because of this, when they don't react, you feel confused. Did they hear or not? Why is it so?

And it is not with only husbands but with almost every man. But yes, **we have the best control over our husbands only!!**

![5 Quirky ways you can make him listen to you](https://thoughtsbygeethica.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/make-him-listen.jpg)

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## Make him listen to you

I could gather only a few points when I could make my man listen to me. I hope that works for some of you too.

- Never try to talk to him when he is watching some match or listening to some debate on the news channel. The same goes for his mobile. He will not listen. He may not know** that you are sitting next to him.**

- When he talks to you, give your full attention. At the end, start your conversation. He will be in full mood for discussion.

- When he's driving, there are more chances that he is interested in some conversations. At this time you can recall all your saved points to discuss with him.

- Going out to dinners and coffees is the best time to share your views on the topics of your interests. This is a fruitful time.

- At night just before retiring to bed, you can open up with your views. But when you have kids around then forget even to utter a word because they have their own stories to narrate first.

> Every woman has her own style to tackle her husband. I would love to hear your views on the same. 

Well, I have sprinkled this post with more fun. 

Hello everyone out there, I have a blogger friend at my website today who will add a men's point of view to this post. Interesting?

![](https://thoughtsbygeethica.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/pulkit-sharma.jpg)

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[https://www.menstellar.com/relationship-qualities-look-life-partner](https://www.menstellar.com/relationship-qualities-look-life-partner)

So did you enjoy it? Let me know what more you want to know.