D-Detachment
Human is never satisfied at one point. That’s human nature. We always crave for one or the other thing. Similarly, when we enter this world, we are automatically connected to many relationships at once. All these relationship wires are demanding at all levels. We are happy because of them and become sad because of them only. Happiness may not be discussed since we do not need to research about things that give us joy.
And sadness is due to involvement. Because the people closer to us are the source of both happiness and sadness in our life.
This calls for the next word in my motivational dictionary D- DETACHMENT
The real meaning
Indifference to worldly pleasures.
or
Freedom from bias or prejudice
Where is the problem?
Actually, it is almost impossible to be detached from the ones you love. When they are happy, you are happy. The minute they get hurt, you are also sad. You pray to God for their well-being.
Very appropriately said by The Buddha. But how do we detach ourselves? Listening to spiritual sayings? Learning to be away from family members?Not bothered by their happiness or sadness and still living together?
I guess you can be detached from their happiness but when they are hurt, you are not able to hold yourself back. And naturally, you feel for them.
The solution to some extent
Leaning towards God may help you detach from worldly pleasures. Giving all your time to God and serving him may detach you. But sometimes I feel, how much you become spiritual and accept the fact that one day everyone has to die but when that time comes and your beloved person dies!
Then? Then what happens? Are you brave enough so as to not get affected?
Then what happens? Are you brave enough so as to not get affected?
Yes, the way this quote says- just for the day- practise detachment- allow yourself to be free, do not force solutions, let go of ‘it should be this way’, embrace uncertainty.
Accept the uncertainty. Nobody waits for his/her loved one to die soon. But when it happens, you need to be courageous. When closer people start going to The God, you fear that now is it the turn for your next one?
But when God gives some trouble to us, that is only a test of our patience; the strength to be strong from inside out. To accept the fact that when one has come to this world, he has to go also in order to follow the law of nature.
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Detachment is a funny thing.While it gives some protection against emotional hurt ,it also makes you unable to enjoy true meaning of love and life. Thank you for writing with us for #MondayMommy Moments
Yes you are correct Amrita. For enjoying small joys of life, we turn towards our family and kids only. Thanks for commenting
Liked your post and the images. I am on a seeking mission myself and detatchment and renunciation are the biggest roadblocks. Quoting my Gurudev here ” When the child is a baby, the parents buy her many toys. But as she grows to become a teenager, do we not want her to outgrow the toys and develop academic pursuits? There was a time when we happily gave her toys, but would certainly not like a fifteen-year-old girl, to carry her childhood teddy bear to school! Similarly in life, we have to grow out of desire for the lower and seek the higher and subtler. We need to distance ourselves from the ‘toys’ of the world.” Thus by making our source of happiness, our goal higher, we can transact yet remain detached.Of course, easier said than done.
Check out my post for today as well
https://archanablogs.wordpress.com/2017/04/05/d-for-depression-thoughts-in-the-wake-of-a-suicide/
I truly agree with you Archana. I am happy to be connected with you over this challenge. Looking forward to learn alike things from you in this journey. Thanks for commenting
I have conditioned myself like that – i can detach from anything anyone quickly, exception being my son, though.
Wow Tina,that’s brave of you. But detaching from blood relations is task to be practised. Thanks for commenting
Detachment is a tough feat to achieve
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Yes it is Neha. Specially humans bonded in relationships. Thanks for commenting.
Great post… You’ve a very lovely blog 🙂
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Thanks for the compliment
That’s a great post, Geethica. I try my best to be detached. But sadly, I get affected by the smallest of things. Long way to go, I suppose!
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We all have a long way to go dear. But all least we can detach from the smallest of things to start with. Thanks for commenting
Detachment is the real root of all miseries. So simple yet so hard to practice detachment. It becomes easy by meditating. Vipassana is the technique by which Gautam Buddha attained “Nirvana” and which helps us to learn detachment. For more info : http://www.dhamma.org
I am thankful you connected well with the post.thanks for commenting
Detachement is what the yogis and gurus preach to reach your higher self; good writing G. I enjoyed reading the quotes too!
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Thanks Shalz. Well am I depicting a baba’s image😉
Makes a lot of sense to me buddy and I agree most of our pain roots from the deep sense of attachment. I am going to surely practice detachment for a day as per your advice.
Truly Yours Roma
That’s a big compliment for me dear if I could bring a little change to your life. Thanks for commenting
Fear of Uncertainty and anxiety are god’s way of keeping humans humble by telling us to practice Detachment. That’s a nice post !!
Thanks Deepthi for appreciating.
I am learning the art of detachment and life is more calm, and richer, as I detach myself.
Which is why I could empathise with your post, Geethica. Very nice.
Mayuri
Thanks Mayuri. Surely you would be benefiting from detachment.
Ahhh loved your post on Detachment! I am going to try today to be detached and take what the Universe has to offer to me!!!
Quite an eye opener!!!
Ashmita Chatterjee,
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I am glad you felt connected with my post. And if it could bring a small change to my readers then it’s a big compliment for me. Thanks for commenting.
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Beautifully expressed. To some it’s a struggle, to most it’s an exam. Lovely post 🙂
Thank you very much for appreciating